MLK, Jr. Reflection

We spend a lot of time in conflict with our “neighbors” and the fact is we are all here, right now, together.

We need to figure it out. Not to mention, we are on land that is not our own; the Native Americans were here already.

Now, we are all here. We are all humans. Perhaps we should bond over similarities instead of great differences so that we may thrive together. Let’s stop emitting negative energy into the world. Love and respect work best.

What is thriving together? I do not have the answers, but highlighting and appreciating the contributions of demonized and feared groups is a start.

Today, I went to see the “Men of Change. Power. Triumph. Truth.,” exhibit at the Washington State History Museum with my little boy. The exhibit is amazing. Each year I struggle to find a meaningful activity to celebrate MLK, Jr. and our African-American culture and history. Seattle does not have an expansive African American community, particularly in our neighborhood.

I grew up in Atlanta (and tons of family in Memphis). Therefore, African Americans and remnants of Martin Luther King, Jr.’s life were everywhere. It was easy for me to see and experience how the world viewed me as a black woman and compare that with how my family viewed me, as a multifaceted amazing black woman. The world was my oyster.

Those perspectives are harder for the kiddo. He receives one perspective and I wonder if it’s too unrealistic and positive. However, this exhibit not only celebrated African American culture and history, but also showed the challenges and struggles. All done through the special lens of Black men. As a mom to a young Black boy, I found it particularly relevant, thoughtful and enlightening . The exhibit illuminates African-American men’s change-making contributions (past and present) through bold, contemporary visual art, fresh literary excerpts, and vibrant stories. During the exhibit, I watched the kiddo transform from being scared of being a Black boy to being proud of being Black. So proud of my kid for observing and engaging with the exhibit and asking thought provoking questions. Children are really our future.

I hope you all celebrated the holiday in a way to bring respect, awareness and change. If you have a chance to view the exhibit, GO. In fact, go now!

“I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear.” ~Martin Luther King, Jr.